Sometime during the second day of the trip, unbeknownst to Gwen, I began to reflect on important lessons I was learning about traveling with a partner. Gwen and I seem to very naturally have a lot of fun and function effectively while traveling, not that I am surprised, but it makes for a lot of happiness and enjoyment everyday we are here together. So, I started my own little list, which I then shared with her, of lessons for a successful trip with your partner - you know, for my next career as a self help book writer! Here is the run down of our list thus far, which we will hopefully update as our journey unfolds:
1. Be flexible - this is what we refer to as "wingin' it" - making great plans doesn't always mean you need to follow them. Let your sense of adventure guide you when you can!
2. Allow time for healthy rituals - whether it is for hygiene, journaling, or just having some quiet time, it makes all the difference. Even if you just think the other person needs it, you'll likely get just as much out of letting them have their time as they do.
3. Be silly - you're on vacation, and while that sounds relaxing, being in a new place everyday can get stressful really fast. Remember to be silly, goof off, laugh a lot. It's healthy and will recharge your batteries for when inevitable challenges arise.
There you have it, a work in progress. We aren't experts by any means, but we do have our masters, and so far we are having a spectacular trip, so we just might be onto something.
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